[DataGrid] fix quick filter dropping a pending search on parser identity change

[michelengelen]

the commit logic moved into an identity-stable commitQuickFilterValue via useEventCallback (the repo's established pattern), which reads parser at commit time. The debounced function is now memoized on [commitQuickFilterValue, debounceMs], so a re-render with a new inline parser no longer recreates it — and the effect cleanup no longer clears a pending commit. A genuine debounceMs change still recreates it deliberately, since debounce captures its delay at creation. A short comment linking #23572 guards the invariant.

Fixes #23572

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